Hi! So I forgot to update my list after giving birth because life has become busy.
But because I have friends who are pregnant, I decided to update my list haha
My baby is now a healthy 1 year and 8 months old, so I may have other tips to add.
Anyway, I will revert back to my previous post last year.
A. Feeding
Yes! I am so happy to say that I breastfeed my baby til 1 years old. I still had a lot of milk when she turned one, but it was my choice to stop. Why? Because (1) I heard stories of hard-to-wean babies especially when they have memories already, (2) I want to try to get a loooong night's sleep, instead of being interrupted every 3-4 hours to feed, (3) milk content at this time is watery and not fatty anymore, and (4) I'm a bit tired of pumping and washing while at work.
So, what are the techniques? How was I able to sustain it? I thought I wrote a different post here.
Anyway, what were the things that we find most useful:
- Nursing bra - I had 5, ordered from Shoppee because it's so much cheaper there haha and they're comfortable to sleep.
- Silicon pump - BEST BUY! This was so useful, that I had 3 from Shopee (99 pesos versus the original Haakaa 1200)
- Nipple cream - OMG, I wouldn't survive without this! I was able to consume 3 tubs. I tried Purelan by Medela (I bought 2), and also finished the nipple balm I brought from Shopee.
- Nursing cover/dress/shirt - I didn't buy a nursing cover because I had sarongs and well, I kind of liked the nursing dresses haha only priced less than 400 pesos from Shopee, so in the end, I had like 5 dresses and several nursing shirts.
- Nursing pillow - most important during the first 3 months when the baby has no head control yet; but since it's very useful during the first 3 months only, it's advisable to borrow if you can
- Nursing supplements - I ate oatmeal, malunggay capsules, lactation cookies, fenugreek capsules

When I started going back to work, these things became more useful (breastfeeding and pumping):
- Wisemom Portable Pump - BEST BUY! Bought this at Baby Mama Centris for less than 3,500 only (I was able to borrow a Medela, but I preferred this so it will depend on your preference). But I advise you to buy this on 3rd to 4th month of breastfeeding, when your milk is already a lot and sustainable. Some buy before giving birth only to find out that they don't have enough breast milk.
- My sister bought the Freemie (it was released when I was in my later stages of breastfeeding already so it was already too late for me), but she raves how useful it is, hands-free, and discreet underneath her clothes while she's working. Problem is when she wants to order spare parts (so less washing), it has to come from the US because it's very expensive here.
- Breastmilk bags - bought from Shopee because it's really cheaper there as compared to baby stores and department stores
- Portable UV Sterilizer - BEST BUY! this costs 1200-1500 by UVCare and Wisemom. Very useful so I use this to sterilize my pump stuff at work, and can also be used to sterilize baby's stuff including toys, our phones, etc
- Bottle - we bought Avent Naturale and Tommy Tippee from US due to sale in Amazon (10 USD for 4 pcs already if I remember correctly)

At age 1, we started to wean. We became successful after 1 or 2 months haha So these stuff became more useful:
- Milk - we got Nido 1+ based on my judgment when I compared nutrition facts of different milk (DHA and good gut bacteria). We also tried to wean from drinking milk every 3 hrs to drinking milk when ever she needs to take a nap (So usually 3-4 bottles a day), so she would eat more solid food.
- Milk storage container - we actually got this as a gift but was able to use it for short day trips
- 3-in-1 high chair - BEST BUY! P 1,199 only from Shopee. This high chair is convertible and can become a table and chair for her when she grows older.
- Suction Bowl with spoon and fork (got this very cheap from Shoppee) or Suction Placemat with divider (got this as a gift)
- Sippy cup - she was only able to use this for a few months only
- Waterproof bib - only use this when we're out, because Maple doesn't like it because it's hot (long-sleeves kasi)
B. Diapers
We were able to do cloth diaper since birth! Not exclusively, but we got a huge savings from using it. We only use disposable whenever we're out traveling, or at night.
Anyway, we used:
- 2 dozens of bird's eye lampin - given as a gift; it's so easy to dry
- 10-15 pcs Cover-type diapers - from Shopee (my favorite shop is yuxi; go for double gusset); can also double as swim diapers; my favorite because it's very easy to dry
- 10-15 pcs Pocket type cloth diapers - from Shopee (go for double gusset so it won't leak)
- 15-20 microfiber inserts - from Shopee
- 10-15 bamboo charcoals - from Shopee

- Disposable wipes - because I ordered a box from Shopee when I was pregnant for P23/pack (Tender Love Unscented). We were only able to consume it after 1 yr and 6 months! We actually gave some of it away
- Waterproof changing mat - we had 3 from Shopee. It was cotton so Maple can sleep on it comfortably
- Disposable diapers - we only use this at night and whenever we're going out (and for emergencies if there's no cloth diapers left)
C. Sleeping/Nursery
We had several cribs and playpens given as gifts, but in the end... we settled for a Montessori-style where the bed is at the floor, so Maple wouldn't fall off the bed (which happened once), which means we didn't need cribs anymore.
- Firm mattress on the floor
- Waterproof protector - from Shopee
- Halo/wearable blankets - we had this, but we didn't find it useful because Maple gets awakened all hot and sweaty (even when the aircon is really cold)
- Rocking chair - BEST BUY! useful for me even during third trimester of pregnancy
D. Bathing and Health
- Bath tub (Megabox) - BEST BUY! Aside from being a bath tub, it also serves as a storage (and hamper) whenever we're traveling. When our baby gets too big for this, we can still use it.
- Bath net - very useful during the first 3 months (without head control), and also until when she was able to sit on her own; this is advisable to borrow since you'll only be using it for a few months
- Towel - we were able to use the hooded towel for the first 6 months (or I guess until she will still fit).
- Bath hat, nasal aspirator, nail cutter - we had this, but wasn't able to use it. If my daughter had a clogged nose, I would rather nebulize with saline solution haha
E. Clothing
- Newborn clothes - very useful tie-sides tops! But... I don't know if it's just Maple, but she doesn't like the bonnet, mittens, booties, socks.
- Onesies - sets in Shoppees are very cheap
- Sandos - presko!
- Shorts, pants, socks - we didn't prioritize bottoms because Maple was wearing cloth diaper. And she easily feels warm
- Shoes - we started Maple with socks with rubber bottoms, then eventually shifted to real shoes and sandals with rubber soles. If the sole is too smooth, she tends to slip up.
- Wash cloth + Clip holder - I kind of lost our clip holders, but I find them so useful. Aside from the versatile bimpo that easily converts into a bib/burp cloth/towel, we can put clips on toys that she might throw and be dirty. But yes, I think it's a smart buy!


- Carrier - BEST BUY! For Maple, she doesn't want to sleep in the stroller and constantly wants to be carried around, so the hip-seat carrier is very useful for me. I'm still using it until now.
- Stroller - we had the lightweight portable stroller by Aprica given as a gift, but Maple only stays there for several minutes at a time. Longest was when we were at a mall, and she stayed for 30 minutes :| But for my niece Casey, her stroller is so useful for her. She can sleep on it, and just stay there for hours! So I guess it will also depend on your baby.
- Car seat - we bought one from HMR at 999 pesos only! We got it in case the car seat law comes into place. And actually, Maple knows that it's her own seat in the car.
- Diaper bag - we already ruined the backpack diaper bag, and on our way to our 3rd bag. In my opinion, it doesn't have to be a baby bag, but it needs to have a lot of pockets. (And not so girly, so my husband will carry it.)

Hmm... For now, I think those are the essentials. If I'm going to have our 2nd child soon, I will revert back to this list haha Perhaps, we'll buy the Owl or Babybee UV Sterilizer then. There's so much stuff that Maple didn't really use much.
In summary, I usually window shop in department and baby stores. Then I search online to compare prices, because it's usually cheaper to buy online for me :)